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2017 learn to stop caring what others think?

I am someone who is OBSESSED with how other people view me, I always have been, I've always tried to be accepted by pretty much everyone and sadly, the hardest lesson you have to learn is not everyone will like you? Its hard to understand and I'm still trying to get my head around it, doesn't matter how nice you are, some people will just not like you. So we have now entered 2017, I'm going into my twentieth year, I'M GOING TO STOP CARING WHAT OTHERS THINK, and I'm going to help you to.

I think my number one tip with this issue is not to get upset or angry about it and just smile and hold your head high. If someone gives me a dirty look in the street, I become fixated and anxious, is there something on my face? Why doesn't she like me? I need to get away from this mindset, if people don't like you, smile in their face because they will HATE THAT, don't let them think they have got to you. 

People hate to see you do well, some people just can't be proud of you because they are so miserable with their own lives. These people will try and knock you down, don't allow them to do that! You will go further than them, block them out because they will want to know you when your name is out. Don't live your life in a bubble, go out, do what you want and watch how successful you will become.

Maybe you're like me and don't really have a lot of faith or confidence in yourself, so therefore you instantly think your not liked, when this is far from the truth. Learn to love yourself, the moment you start loving yourself and accepting who you are watch how other people react to you!

My biggest lesson of 2016 was dealing with fake people and friends. I am no longer going to be the person who makes all the effort in whatever relationship I have with someone. I am no longer going to try hard with people stuck so far up their arses they can't even say hi to you, I am very much done with nasty girls who don't include others. Don't be a doormat for people, nothing worse than very childish girls and trust me I've met plenty of them last year.

So I hope this post helps you out, I hope you've had a lovely Christmas and Happy New Year, I hope you achieve all your dreams! Go far x

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